With the approaching of my two older son’s birthdays I wanted to do something impactful. James is 15 and Andrew is 13. My younger son’s birthday is coming up in June, but being a toddler impactful looks like sprinklers or bouncy castles. Since this was Andrew’s birthday in which he enter teen-hood,I wanted to do something that prepared him for his fast approaching manhood. I wish I had done this for James at 13, but better late than never. Because I don’t just want to prepare them for manhood, but godly manhood and because I wanted the most beneficial impact, I enlisted the help of some guys which have had huge impact on my life. All these guys have been mentors, friends or both. I truly believe one of the best ways to teach your children to follow God, after being the example yourself, is to surround them with other godly men and women.
Here’s the rundown of the who’s who of godly men in my life (that have also been influential in my son’s lives, too. That was the criteria. It does no good for someone that affected me, to speak into my kids’ lives.). They are: Jeff Maness, Andy Hazelet, CurtisMarshall, Thomas Hogan, Morgan Clark & Devon Arredondo.
I asked each one of these guys to record a short video and share one thing that God has shown them for what it means to be a man of God. Then I sat and watched the videos with them. Shared my own thoughts with them and gave them a special gift to commemorate the day. I also intend to write each message into a small journal I bought them and give it to them on their next birthday.
What these guys had to share with my boys was without a doubt, amazing. Since some of them don’t listen to instructions so well, there were actually more than 6 things, but here’s what they (collectively) told my boys about being a man of God.
Be a man of prayer.
Be in His word (because obedience is found there).
Be serious about the task of being a man.
Be a pursuer of righteousness and godliness.
Be a man of faith.
Be aware of who you run with (Be in Christian community).
Way more than I could have asked for or expected. I love these guys. And I love that they care for my boys and I enough that at the drop of a hat they’d do this for them. Not only that, but that's a list I want to be living.
Trying to live that list,